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		<title>Positive Reinforcement</title>
		<link>http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2010/04/14/positive-reinforcement/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 15 Apr 2010 05:25:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
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<p style="text-align: left;">As parents we always hear how important positive reinforcement is when disciplining your child.  <em>Instead of just punishing your toddler for wacking the dog, praise her when you catch her petting the puppy nicely.</em> I&#8217;m sure you have all heard this over and over again.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">Well, recently, I&#8217;ve discovered that this works for me as well.  I tend to beat myself up over every mistake I make as a parent and think &#8220;Alright now I&#8217;ve gone and screwed her <a href="http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2010/04/14/positive-reinforcement/">...<br/><br/><div style=float:right;font-family:georgia,serif;font-weight:bold;text-transform:lowercase;><h3>Read More >></h3></div><div style=clear:both></div></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Mommy Tip of the Day &#8211; What you Resist Persists</title>
		<link>http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/07/10/mommy-tip-of-the-day-what-you-resist-persists/</link>
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		<pubDate>Fri, 10 Jul 2009 17:24:39 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>I was so fortunate to have been visiting with my cousin a couple of weeks ago where we had an interesting conversation over lunch (in the Magic Kingdom of course).&#160; We were discussing the challenges of raising kids and what you can do to look at things from a different perspective.&#160; I was telling her how when I am really frustrated I try to apply something I learned in yoga of removing my dislike from an unpleasant situation.&#160;&#160; She had a much more eloquent phrase for it <strong>“What you resist persists”</strong>.&#160; YES.&#160; That is exactly what I was trying to <a href="http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/07/10/mommy-tip-of-the-day-what-you-resist-persists/">...<br/><br/><div style=float:right;font-family:georgia,serif;font-weight:bold;text-transform:lowercase;><h3>Read More >></h3></div><div style=clear:both></div></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Mommy Tip of the Day</title>
		<link>http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/07/06/mommy-tip-of-the-day-18/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 06 Jul 2009 15:59:58 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
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<p>You are your child's <strong>first</strong> and <strong>most</strong> important teacher.&#160; Never underestimate the impact you have on your child.&#160; He/She looks up to you more than anyone else and models your behavior.&#160; He also looks to you for your approval.&#160; When she can look in your eyes and see that you believe in her it gives her the confidence to move forward and venture out on her own.&#160; So don’t ever doubt for a second how important you are!</p>
<p><strong>Links:</strong></p>
<p><a title="http://www.parentsasteachers.org/site/pp.asp?c=ekIRLcMZJxE&#38;b=272091" href="http://www.parentsasteachers.org">http://www.parentsasteachers.org</a></p>
<p><a title="http://nextgenparenting.com/blog/?p=658" href="http://nextgenparenting.com/blog/?p=658">http://nextgenparenting.com/blog/?p=658</a></p>
<p><a title="http://betterkidcare.psu.edu/TIPS/TIPS303.pdf" href="http://betterkidcare.psu.edu/TIPS/TIPS303.pdf">http://betterkidcare.psu.edu/TIPS/TIPS303.pdf</a></p>
<p><a title="http://www.parenthood.com/index.php" href="http://www.parenthood.com/index.php">http://www.parenthood.com/index.php</a></p>
<p><a title="http://www.nationalcac.org/families/early_learning/parents/" href="http://www.nationalcac.org/families/early_learning/parents/">http://www.nationalcac.org/families/early_learning/parents/</a></p>
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		<title>Mommy Tip of the Day &#8211; Hitting</title>
		<link>http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/06/08/mommy-tip-of-the-day-hitting/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 08 Jun 2009 19:26:27 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>Okay,  so I guess today isn&#8217;t really a tip but more of a plea for help.  Ever since my daughter was 8 months old she has had a problem hitting others.  Let me just add that I don&#8217;t know if her foster mom ever hit her but I highly doubt it.  I can tell you that me and my husband have never hit her, not even just a slap on the hand.  So part of my frustration is just not knowing where this comes from.</p>
<p>When it first started I figured okay this is just how she is letting out her <a href="http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/06/08/mommy-tip-of-the-day-hitting/">...<br/><br/><div style=float:right;font-family:georgia,serif;font-weight:bold;text-transform:lowercase;><h3>Read More >></h3></div><div style=clear:both></div></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Mommy Tip of the Day</title>
		<link>http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/06/01/mommy-tip-of-the-day-4/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 01 Jun 2009 15:05:21 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p>My absolute most favorite resource for learning about my daughters development is <a href="http://aces.nmsu.edu/ces/nmcyfar/babys-first-wish.html">Baby&#8217;s First Wish.</a></p>
<p>They are monthly newsletters that tell you what you can expect your child to be doing that month as well as little games and activities you can do to help them grow and learn.</p>
<p>Go check it out.  I know you will love it!</p>
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		<title>Mommy Tip of the Day #17</title>
		<link>http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/03/19/mommy-tip-of-the-day-17/</link>
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		<pubDate>Thu, 19 Mar 2009 20:42:18 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><strong>Play the Fool.</strong><br />
We could all learn a little something from Elmo&#8217;s friend Mr. Noodle.  He is an adult who needs a lot of help from little kids to figure out how to do everyday things.  This helplessness gives kids confidence because they feel really smart when they know more than an adult!  For example, when trying to wash his hands he would do something like put his elbows in, then splash water on his face, or put his foot in the sink.  Every time he does it wrong the little kids tell him the right <a href="http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/03/19/mommy-tip-of-the-day-17/">...<br/><br/><div style=float:right;font-family:georgia,serif;font-weight:bold;text-transform:lowercase;><h3>Read More >></h3></div><div style=clear:both></div></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Mommy Tip of the Day #16</title>
		<link>http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/03/17/mommy-tip-of-the-day-16/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Mar 2009 06:18:50 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
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		<description><![CDATA[<p><img src="http://www.modernmommyblog.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/03/110208-017c1-269x300.jpg" alt="110208 017c1 269x300 Mommy Tip of the Day #16" title="110208-017c1" width="269" height="300" class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-856" />Have a picnic!</p>
<p>It&#8217;s springtime and the weather here in Arizona is perfect.  I am extremely  lucky to live right across the street from a big park.  I literally walk out my  front door cross the street and find myself in the middle of a large sports  field with a small playground a short walk away.</p>
<p>Yesterday DD and I packed up some snacks, a blanket, bubbles, a spray bottle  of water, a bucket of water, and some paint brushes.  We had <a href="http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/03/17/mommy-tip-of-the-day-16/">...<br/><br/><div style=float:right;font-family:georgia,serif;font-weight:bold;text-transform:lowercase;><h3>Read More >></h3></div><div style=clear:both></div></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Mommy Tip of the Day #15</title>
		<link>http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/03/02/mommy-tip-of-the-day-15/</link>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 02 Mar 2009 15:45:51 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
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<p style="text-align: left;">I once learned a communication technique for spouses that goes like this.</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">At the end of every day each spouse tells the other one:</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">-something good that happened to them that day</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">-something bad that happened to them that day</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">-something the other spouse did to make them mad</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">-I love you because ______________________</p>
<p style="text-align: left;">If something comes up in this very short discussion you can choose to explore that further or you <a href="http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/03/02/mommy-tip-of-the-day-15/">...<br/><br/><div style=float:right;font-family:georgia,serif;font-weight:bold;text-transform:lowercase;><h3>Read More >></h3></div><div style=clear:both></div></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Mommy Tip of the Day #14</title>
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		<pubDate>Mon, 23 Feb 2009 20:13:37 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
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<p>Today&#8217;s tip isn&#8217;t really about <a href="http://www.modernmommyblog.com/wp-admin/edit.php?paged=4">child development </a>or anything of that nature but it is about keeping a <a href="http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/01/30/dirty-house/">clean house</a> which in itself is more challenging once you have children.<br />
One word VINEGAR.  Vinegar is pretty much my best friend when it comes to cleaning my house.  I walk around with a little spray bottle with 50% vinegar and 50% water and use it on everything. Kitchen counter tops, dinning table, wood blinds, the floor (wood or tile), all <a href="http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/02/23/mommy-tip-of-the-day-14/">...<br/><br/><div style=float:right;font-family:georgia,serif;font-weight:bold;text-transform:lowercase;><h3>Read More >></h3></div><div style=clear:both></div></a>]]></description>
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		<title>Mommy Tip of the Day #13</title>
		<link>http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/02/18/mommy-tip-of-the-day-13/</link>
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		<pubDate>Wed, 18 Feb 2009 20:54:52 +0000</pubDate>
		<dc:creator>Jill</dc:creator>
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<p>I haven&#8217;t done one of these in a while and the reason for that is well because I have been completely overwhelmed with this new stage DD is going through.  I&#8217;m guessing it&#8217;s normal two year old behavior.  It&#8217;s funny because I have always been determined never to call it the &#8220;terrible twos&#8221; because it seems like such a negative term but man no matter how many times I have heard that term and I still wasn&#8217;t prepared for this.  Anyway <a href="http://www.modernmommyblog.com/index.php/2009/02/18/mommy-tip-of-the-day-13/">...<br/><br/><div style=float:right;font-family:georgia,serif;font-weight:bold;text-transform:lowercase;><h3>Read More >></h3></div><div style=clear:both></div></a>]]></description>
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