Last year I joined a gym for the first time since I was 18. I started working with a personal trainer but it was actually just once a month to check in and update my routine. I was surprised to find that this was all I needed to lose weight. I lost 20 pounds in 5 months. That is 1 pound a week. My original goal was to lose 25 lbs but I lost steam around the holidays. I stopped meeting regularly with the trainer and just sort of did my own thing. I am now up about 4 lbs and realize I need to do something before I gain any more weight back. But I just DON’T want to work out. I admit, I am being lazy. Very very lazy.
Last night I forced myself to get on a treadmill and once I was there I felt great. That’s one of the most important lessons I learned last year. When you don’t feel like working out FORCE yourself to get there and you will be happy once you arrive. While I was walking I had a lot of time to think and I hope I came up with a solution to getting back on track.
This is my formula for getting my motivation back.
Last time I told myself that I would give the workout and diet 2 months. I HAD to do it for 2 months and if I wasn’t happy with the results then I could quit. Well, of course I was happy because I had lost 8 lbs so I continued doing it.
What is my motivation now?
After I lost the 20 lbs I pulled down my box of skinny clothes from my closet. There were a bunch of cute clothes in there I didn’t even know I had. They were 2 and 3 sizes smaller than what I had been wearing before and they actually fit me! I was so excited it was like going on a shopping spree. Now that I’ve gained a few back the jeans are a little tight on me and there are a couple of things I can’t wear at all. I can physically get them on but they are just a little too tight to be comfortable in them. I really want to fit in these clothes again because I can’t afford to buy new ones.
Okay but how am I going to make sure I stay motivated?
I work really well with lists, because I love to cross things out once they are done. Last time the trainer would make a calendar for me and what I was supposed to do on every day. She would change up my routine every week to keep my body guessing. So, last night I came home and made up a calendar. I listed two months worth of exercise so that every day I can feel great about myself when I get to cross one off.
- Monday, Wednesday, and Friday I have 45 minutes of cardio. Stepping up the intensity each week.
- Tuesday’s I will do strength training in my very own home. Things like push ups, dips, sit ups, squats, lunges, and step ups.
- Thursday’s I do yoga which will also work my muscles.
- Saturday and Sunday I rest but hopefully still stay active on those days.
As far as my diet goes I already try to eat healthy most of the time. I am just going to step it up a little. Go back to not buying any unhealthy foods at the grocery store. Focus on eating a small healthy meal 5 times a day and no more late night snacking. It’s important for me to remember to take it one day at a time. It helps to know that it’s not like I will NEVER be able to eat ice cream again. Just not today.
What do you do to stay motivated?
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wendy says...
my motivation’s my husband. LOL. seriously, we had been working out for several years already and it has come to be a family affair for us. I just slowed down a little bit these days because of my pregnancy. but my first pregnancy was so wonderful that I am even more motivated now to maintain my gym routine (just like what i had with my first):-)
May 20th, 2009 at 11:28 pm
Jill says...
I know what you mean Wendy. My husband is a big motivation for me as well. I would not be able to do it without him.
May 21st, 2009 at 12:22 pm
Julie@Momspective says...
Everyone in the Wii Mommies forum and all my friends on Twitter and at home for support. Since I lost the weight, I’m determined to not only keep it off but to try to motivate and support as many people as I can.
May 21st, 2009 at 1:17 pm
Heidi says...
My motivation is … well … I don’t really have a motivation for exercise. It’s weird too, because I have to motivate myself ALL the time to do other things – namely WRITE (ie: my job.) I’m one of those strange ducks who actually LOVES exercising. I know you probably want to elbow me in the face right now, but it’s the truth. I love it! There are certain types of exercise I don’t love. For example, doing crunches. I despise ab workouts. Instead I do things I love – biking, swimming, kayaking … I love being outdoors and I love outdoor activities, so biking is a double whammy. I’m outside, getting sun AND burning calories. Now that I’ve roped Joe into biking it’s like a triple whammy. I’m outside, burning calories, AND spending time with my fiancé, who is a couch potato.
The fact that he bikes with me means so, so much. In fact, last Saturday after an 18-mile ride, he said to me, “Ya know, I don’t think we’d be getting married if I refused to bike with you.”
I considered it for a minute and I was about to say, “nonsense!” When I realized he was right. Being active is so important to me that I’d go crazy if my husband didn’t join me on at least a few rides a week …
Phew. Long response, eh? Now if only I could lick this chocolate addiction.
May 21st, 2009 at 2:35 pm
Jill says...
Julie,
Your site is an inspiration to me. I can’t wait to get my Wii this Christmas.
Heidi,
That’s one of the reasons I wished we still lived in Ca. Being able to exercise outdoors year round is a blessing. We’re also hoping to get bikes this Christmas.
May 21st, 2009 at 3:31 pm
Allie says...
I love working out- but I never really know how much I love it until 15 minutes in so my thing is I just need to start. I am a matron of honor at my BFFs wedding in 8 weeks and I that has been the biggest motivation for loosing the 30 ish pounds I’ve lost.
May 22nd, 2009 at 1:18 pm
Jill says...
I like working out while I’m doing it, and I have many reasons to be motivated, but I’m just not. I try SO hard, but there’s always a reason (probably more of an excuse) not to do well. I’m still truckin, though!
May 22nd, 2009 at 1:30 pm