Here is the plain and awful truth. Since I stopped working in October our savings has dwindled and dwindled until this past week when it was completely gone. DH doesn’t get paid until next Tuesday and we have about $160 to our name right now. So you can imagine my despair when I received a reminder e-mail that one of our credit card payments is due this Saturday and the minimum payment is $250.
Luckily DD was sleeping so that I could fret and despair by myself for a couple of hours while I stared at our bank account balance and tried to figure out how we are going to make this work. I finally came to the conclusion that we either need to get all of our credit cards paid off PRONTO or I need to go back to work. Dh and I both don’t want that because we feel it is best for little E to have a consistent caregiver and that person is ME.
So we came up with an eight month plan where we spend absolutely no money except for what is necessary to live on and we put all our money towards our credit cards. If we can do this we will have them paid off in November of this year. That’s not so bad right?
In order to find out how long it will take to pay off our cards I found this website that calculates it all for you.
Then I printed out our budget and crossed out everything that could be spared and reduced the rest to the bare minimum. This is what it ended up looking like.
-Of course we have all our mandatory bills like our mortgage, second mortgage, hoa, auto insurance, and utilities.
-No more gym
-No more chiropractor/massages
-No hair cuts, for me anyway (I know…YIKES)
-Deferring our student loans
-Grocery’s $300
-Gas $175
-Entertainment/Dining out $80
-Clothing $30
-Household $30
This basically means that I cannot buy ANYTHING that I don’t need. It also means that we can’t take any big summer vacations or go to an expensive restaurant. But if it is only for eight months I can live with it. If there is something that we really really want to do, like see Wicked for our anniversary, or take Eva to Disney on Ice like I was really wanting to do then we might have to cut back on some other areas as well. Like getting rid of cable or cutting back on our cell phone use.
I’m hoping and praying that by the end of this experience I am a better person and I will be able to live with less for the rest of my life. At least I know I will have less stress in my life.
I’m already so proud that we walked to the grocery store last night and only spent $25 for the whole week!
Oh and I was very relieved when I called the credit card company and they told me they would give us a one time reprieve on our payment this month. Meaning we don’t have to pay them anything until next month and we will not be punished at all! That was a relief.
Tomorrow I will share my list of things I figured out we can do for free or practically free this summer so we aren’t completely stuck in the house.
*photo credit: flickr










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[...] Random Feed wrote an interesting post today onHere’s a quick excerptHere is the plain and awful truth. Since I stopped working in October our savings has dwindled and dwindled until this past week when it was completely gone. DH doesn’t get paid until next Tuesday and we have about $160 to our name right now. So you can imagine my despair when I received a reminder e-mail that one of our credit card payments is due this Saturday and the minimum payment is $250. Luckily DD was sleeping so that I could fret and despair by myself for a couple of hours while I s [...]
March 25th, 2009 at 8:50 am
Sarah says...
This is going to be challenging, but so worth it. Good luck!
March 25th, 2009 at 10:21 am
Ashley says...
Good luck! I’m sure it will feel great in 8 months when all of the debt is gone
March 25th, 2009 at 11:38 am
Lin says...
Uh, I hate to be Debbie Downer, but I would suggest you put something down on that credit card as a payment because they may defer your payment, but they are charging you interest. It sounds nice, but you are getting soaked again. Pay something, anything every month regardless of these “waivers”. Good luck. My advice–cut up every card except one for emergency. Sounds like you are in deep. I know you can pay them off!! Even if you have to suffer a bit.
March 25th, 2009 at 4:47 pm
Jill says...
Hi Lin,
From one Debbie Downer to another I did think of that and will hopefully be able to pay something next week when DH’s paycheck comes in. I was just happy they weren’t going to report us the the credit company’s or up our interest rate to 30%.
March 25th, 2009 at 5:45 pm
LeftLeaningLady says...
It is going to be tough, but you can do it. And it is for such a great cause, no one else should be your child’s primary caregiver if you want that roll for yourself. And it is only for 8 months.
Good luck!
March 26th, 2009 at 7:00 am
Jill says...
Yes that is all I have to remind myself of to give me the motivation. The fact that I am doing this for my daugther makes it all worth it. Plus not being able to spend money actually gives us more family time together and I love that.
March 26th, 2009 at 10:04 am
heather says...
I just started hanging my laundry and in one month I saved $100!
http://www.drheathermanleynd.com/drheathersblog/category/beinggreen/
It is good for my spirit, my wallet and the environment!
April 21st, 2009 at 4:01 pm
Gentry says...
I know this is an old post, but I just wanted to say don’t beat yourself up. Your situation is somewhat typical. We too, had to really adjust going from two to one income and ran into CC debt. Its very easy to do, and its quite a learning curve.
Any diet–whether its weight control (my personal issue) or budget control is hard. There will be times you fall off the wagon. Actually expect to fall off the wagon. Its how you handle that and get back on that counts. I wish you the best!
August 20th, 2009 at 11:57 am
Jill says...
Ahhh thank you Gentry. That was really sweet.
August 20th, 2009 at 4:18 pm