My daughter put me in time out today. Is that part of social emotional development??? Anyways, we were just playing but here are some reasons why I probably should be in time out…
- I haven’t vacuumed her bedroom in at least 3 weeks
- The laundry is badly overflowing
- I didn’t go to the gym yesterday
- Instead of going to the gym I made brownies and watched Lost
- I had the T.V. on almost all day on Tuesday watching the inauguration and was basically a bum not leaving the house all day
- Spent entirely too much time on the computer
I’m sure there’s more but that’s all I can think of right now. However I can think of a few good things I ‘v done this week
- Made a healthy dinner every night for my family
- Kept the kitchen clean (at least one area of the house isn’t a mess)
- Took dd to an awesome park yesterday (to make up for Tuesday)
From the Brooklyn Bridge. I don’t think you can take a bad picture from this bridge.
Ground Zero
Okay I have my screen saver on my computer set to show all of my pictures. Today I noticed some pictures of New York that looked really nice and I had to do a double take to see if they were the ones I took on our trip a few years back. I had never seen them in black and white before and I thought they looked pretty good which is suprising since my pictures usually suck
Here are a few from the Brooklyn bridge…
Give your child lot’s of different experiences in the first 3-5 years of life especially. Since this is such an important time for brain development you want to expose them to lot’s of different experiences.
Join a play group, take them to community playgrounds, join some kind of tumbling or gymboree class, go to the local children’s museum, the local zoo, a small petting zoo, a farm, or even just set up lot’s of fun activities to do in your own home.
Go exploring outside, blow bubbles, make a fort out of chair cushions, get one of these little ball pits
Give them a paint brush and a bucket of water, or hand them a spray bottle filled with water and a towel to wipe it up with.
All of these experiences are teaching them new things about themselves and their world as well as making those all important brain connections. Children learn by playing so have fun playing!!!
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Try to be patient when your infant throws an object over and over and over again. This is an important part of brain development, they are learning cause and effect.
When your child is older and still throws things have them help you pick it up. Or if they make a mess by coloring on the wall or spilling water have them help you clean it with a sponge or towel. My dd loves to help clean things, it makes her feel like a “big girl”.
I find that if I have her help me clean the mess it reduces my irritation and I think eventually she will get tired of cleaning and think twice before throwing all her food off the highchair. I could be dreaming but hey it’s worth a shot right?
This picture really has nothing to do with this post. Just my adorable daughter helping me make cookies on New Years Eve. And no, I did not make her help clean the mess!
